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Ask Niki: How Do I Have Better Sex with My Partner Who Is a Survivor of Sexual Violence?

Learn how to be a better sexual partner to someone with trauma.

By Niki

Feb. 27, 2019 · 5 min read

Ask Niki: How Do I Have Better Sex with My Partner Who Is a Survivor of Sexual Violence?
Mind and Body

Ask Niki: How Do I Have Better Sex with My Partner Who Is a Survivor of Sexual Violence?

Learn how to be a better sexual partner to someone with trauma.

· 5 min read
Ask Niki: How Do I Have Better Sex with My Partner Who Is a Survivor of Sexual Violence?

Q: My partner is a survivor of sexual assault.  She has always been kind of weird about sex. I want to be there for her but I don’t know how. I would love any advice that you have in how to fix this.

A: Thank you for asking this very important and very relevant question! I completely understand your desire to make things better sexually between you and your partner. Unfortunately, the aftermath…

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