Dear Margot,

My boyfriend works in banking. He’s only 30 but he has a lot of people working for him and from what I can tell he’s a pretty mean boss. The weird thing is when he comes home he wants me to scream rude/humiliating things at him while he masturbates. I do it sometimes but I know it upsets the neighbors – they stare at me in the hallway and I can tell they think I’m an evil bitch. They own our building and I’m really afraid we’re going to get evicted.