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Ask Niki: How to Practice Self-Love on Valentine’s Day?

You don't need anyone getting you flowers this Valentine's Day.

Ask Niki: How to Practice Self-Love on Valentine’s Day?

Ask Niki: How to Practice Self-Love on Valentine’s Day?

You don't need anyone getting you flowers this Valentine's Day.

Ask Niki: How to Practice Self-Love on Valentine’s Day?

Valentine’s Day originates from the Roman Festival of Lupercalia, which was a fertility festival celebrated from Feb. 13 to 15 and dates as far back as 44 B.C. During this festival, women would get (consensually?) whipped with the hides of slayed animals and there would be a matchmaking lottery, where people sleep with the person whose name they draw.

Other than potently depicting the existence of polyamory and BDSM through our history, the origin of this festival makes a pretty solid argument for…

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