Hi, I’m Niki Davis a consent and sexuality educator and Bushwick Daily’s Bedroom Coach. Every other humpday, I’ll answer your sex and relationship questions. Submit your anonymous questions to [email protected] or slide them into my DMs @nikidavisf.

Question:

I’m into feet and I haven’t yet told my girlfriend (we’ve been together for 2 years).  I would love to involve this in our sexual routine– but I’m scared that she will judge me or think of me differently if I tell her. This is anonymous, right?